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Beyond Talk Therapy: How EMDR Helps Process Trauma and Heal Your Brain


For many, talking about a painful past event can be helpful, but sometimes, the distress remains, stubbornly triggered by certain sounds, smells, or situations. Traditional talk therapy might feel like it's circling the issue without fully resolving the emotional punch of a memory. This is especially true for trauma. Enter EMDR (Eye Movement Desensitisation and Reprocessing) – a powerful, evidence-based therapy that helps your brain naturally process and heal from distressing experiences, often without requiring you to repeatedly describe the trauma in detail.



The Impact of Unprocessed Trauma

When a distressing or traumatic event happens, your brain's natural processing system can get overwhelmed. Instead of fully "filing away" the memory with a beginning, middle, and end, it gets stuck. The emotions, sensations, and beliefs from that moment remain "raw" and easily triggered. Your brain constantly treats these unprocessed memories as if the danger is still present, leading to symptoms like:

  • Intrusive thoughts or images (flashbacks)

  • Nightmares or difficulty sleeping

  • Heightened anxiety or panic attacks

  • Irritability or anger

  • Feeling numb or disconnected

  • Avoidance of situations that trigger the memory


These are not signs of weakness; they are signs that your brain's natural healing process got interrupted.



What is EMDR, and How Does It Work?

EMDR was developed by Dr. Francine Shapiro in the late 1980s and has since become one of the most thoroughly researched and effective treatments for Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD) and other trauma-related conditions. It works by harnessing your brain's natural healing abilities.


The key to EMDR is bilateral stimulation – typically rhythmic eye movements (like following a therapist's fingers back and forth), but sometimes alternating sounds or taps. While you focus on a distressing memory (including the images, thoughts, and body sensations associated with it), the bilateral stimulation helps your brain to:

  1. Activate the Memory: Bring the "stuck" memory to the forefront.

  2. Facilitate Processing: It's believed that the bilateral stimulation helps to mimic what happens during REM sleep (rapid eye movement), a natural processing state for your brain. This seems to help your brain reprocess the memory, moving it from the emotionally charged part of the brain to the more logical, narrative part.

  3. Desensitise and Reprocess: Over time, the distressing memory loses its emotional intensity, and your brain forms new, healthier associations with it. You're not forgetting the event, but it no longer holds the same power over you.


The American Psychiatric Association and the World Health Organisation are among many leading health organisations that strongly recommend EMDR for the treatment of trauma and PTSD due to its strong evidence base.

(See: American Psychiatric Association (2004). Practice Guideline for the Treatment of Patients With Acute Stress Disorder and Posttraumatic Stress Disorder. World Health Organisation (2013). Guidelines for the management of conditions specifically related to stress.)


What to Expect in EMDR Therapy

EMDR is typically conducted in 8 phases, though the time spent in each phase varies:

  • History Taking & Treatment Planning: Understanding your history and identifying target memories.

  • Preparation: Learning coping skills and ensuring you feel safe and stable.

  • Assessment: Identifying the specific memory, negative belief, emotions, and body sensations associated with it.

  • Desensitisation: The core processing phase using bilateral stimulation. You simply notice what comes up without judgement.

  • Installation: Strengthening a positive belief about yourself related to the memory.

  • Body Scan: Checking for any remaining tension or sensations in the body.

  • Closure: Bringing the session to a calm end.

  • Reevaluation: Checking progress at the start of the next session.


Many clients report feeling significant relief, a reduction in symptoms, and a sense of freedom from the past after EMDR. It can be a highly efficient and effective path to healing from trauma and other distressing life experiences.


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